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Xu Li was born in Hunan Province on August 2, 1961
Jishou
,
CCTV Chinese language international channel
(CCTV-4)"
China news
"Anchorwoman.
When he was young, he had been a rural educated youth, and then he was admitted
Changsha People's Radio Station
It was transferred in 1986
Changsha Television Station
Work. On October 1, 1992,
CCTV (China Central Television)
The international channel was launched, and Xu Li appeared on CCTV as the first anchor of its first program, China News. Since then, he has been working as an anchor on China News.
Xu Li's elegant and succinct newscast style has won the hearts of viewers at home and abroad for many years, making her an iconic figure on CCTV Channel 4 and China News. He has been married twice, and is currently married to"
Beijing Youth Daily
editor
Zhang Tianwei
. She has a son from a previous marriage and is the author of several books.
On August 25, 2021, Xu Li announced his retirement as a civil servant on the social platform. On June 16, 2022, famous host Xu Li returned to the public eye after more than half a year of retirement, and was re-hired by CCTV to become the host of CCTV-10, which will participate in the filming of CCTV documentary channel.
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- Chinese name
- Xu Li
- nationality
- China
- Ethnic group
- The Han nationality
- Date of birth
- August 2, 1961 [1]
- occupation
- emcee
- Major achievement
- Chinese host Gold Award
- Place of Birth
- Hunan (Province) Jishou
- Representative works
- China News
In 1986, he was transferred to Changsha Television Station.
In 1992, he was transferred to the International Channel of CCTV.
China news
"Anchor, later cctv4 news group leader.
In 2006, he published his first personal essay, which is divided into "My Career", "My View of love and marriage", "My beauty experience", "My Love and Marriage".
My blog
"Career" and other four parts, from different levels to rich texture and
Expressive force
The text expresses the rich life experience and the resulting life perception. And as the title says: Woman is an attitude, a successful one
Career woman
The charm of life, but also has the power of example, read when there is a sense of understanding.
Participated on 6 February 2008
2008 CCTV Spring Festival Gala
, with Kanghui,
Lee Seo Young
Yu Yang and other stars performed together
Poetry recitation
The program...
Warm 2008
".
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On August 25, 2021, Xu Li announced her retirement on the social platform, saying: "Tonight will be the last fight of my career.
Live news broadcast
", and period
When netizens can come to watch, the tone is full of reluctance.
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Xu Li
Xu Li
August 3, 2022, Ren
Professional committee of Chinese Association of video hosts
Guild Leader.
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In October, the "Lovely country Beautiful Home" was launched.
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In October, he participated in the broadcast of "Always follow the Party to forge ahead on a new journey - China Television Association Literary Program"
Zhao Baole
,
Li Yangwei
,
Li Xiang
Co-chair.
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In 2006, Xu Li published her own personal essay"
Woman is an attitude
". "One of the most vulgar things in recent years is the so-called 'celebrity book'", Xu Li said, as early as six or seven years ago, there was a publishing house editor
Ask her out
To write a book, but no matter how prodded she was, she couldn't make up her mind. However, in the end, Xu Li still "fell into the rut" when it came to writing a book. She said that the reason why she picked up the pen is because after entering the age of 40, reflecting on her life, she has a lot of ideas and feelings to show people, so in line with the desire to share, she began to candidly write herself.
Xu Li
Xu Li
"Woman is an attitude" this book, whether from the cover photo or from the title, are exudes a strong feminine, which is not the same as the professional image Xu Li gives people on the TV screen. In this regard, Xu Li explained that to highlight the female perspective with such a strong "fat flavor" is because there are countless evaluation standards for women, "how women treat others is actually shaping themselves." In that sense, a woman is an attitude." Hence the title.
From a small woman who experienced the "Cultural Revolution" and "went to the countryside", she turned into
Changsha Television Station
Host, enter the capital again
CCTV (China Central Television)
"
China news
Xu Li has won the state twice since her career
Government award
,
Chinese
Host Gold Medal. She anchors nearly all of CCTV International's major news reports and would be considered a successful person, but she told reporters: "I'm not really successful."
She said the problem she faced was that facing had done everything for her
enterprise
And the sense of accomplishment of "China News", she began to have a difficult to get rid of the monotonous and thin brought by the role fatigue. After entering the age of forty, she constantly asked herself: in the reality dominated by the existing TV concept, a female host over forty years old, how much room to play, and how much can go beyond the self and go further.
She told reporters that after the book was finished, although her confusion has not been completely solved, she has found this courage.
Don't think Xu Li
career
Only the "bright" side. In the book, she said that she had been questioned by many viewers for appearing too serious when she hosted the show, saying that she was "too concerned with her image throughout the broadcast, and that in her questioning of the experts, she was like an elementary school teacher interrogating her pupils." The leader also warned Xu Li seriously: "You must put yourself back a little."
It was the first time in her 25 years in the business that she was strongly questioned by the audience, and for the next week or so, she was in front of the camera every day, and the frequency of mistakes caused by the tension increased, so that when it came time to broadcast the news, her heart would beat wildly.
In this state of near-negativity, on March 26, 2003, the scariest night of her career came. On that day, there was not much progress in the war, the simultaneous footage did not add up to more than five minutes, there was not a single telephone connection, and except for the news on the hour, the rest of the time was reserved for interviews. From evening
Half past six
It started, and it ended at 2:00 p.m., and by the rough count, she talked to the guests for almost six hours. When there was nothing to talk about, she asked her guests to "water down" the topic. "Afterwards we said, that night, for the Iraq war show, we were done
The Tigris River
and
The Euphrates River
Mesopotamia
Of water."
That night, Xu Li's mood fell to rock bottom. It was three o 'clock in the morning when I came home from work, "I could not sleep, I asked myself in my heart: do you have the courage to do it, can you really stick to it, at that moment, I did think of giving up."
"No one knows what happened in my heart," Xu said, "I don't want to hide, for this war report, I am satisfied with my own
willpower
"
s
The interview with Mr
Xu Li has always kept a low profile about her love life. This time, inevitably, she writes about her own love
View of marriage
,
proviso
In the nearly 100 photos disclosed, there are friends, sons, and mother-in-law, but there is no figure of her most important lover, and throughout the article, she only uses "Mr." or "he" to replace the real name of her lover.
Asked why she deliberately "incognito", Xu Li smiled and said: "I just want to communicate with you in the book why I have such a choice of marriage, to express my own marriage?
View of love
As for who the other person is, it doesn't matter to the reader."
Xu Li said that she is a person who believes in love, "although he and I have been married for ten years, but when we come together, we do not have anything that is unacceptable to each other, we completely accept each other, we completely like each other, we are so tacit understanding and spirit."
Xu Li also mentioned in the book this year's son, "I never let my son call Mr. Dad, I just suggested that he can call Zhang Dad, he called for a period of time, about a year later, he took the initiative to remove the word Zhang, and called Dad in a big way." A family of three with different surnames lived together naturally and happily. "For me, the natural kindness of these two men has made my day."
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Author name Xu LiWork time The 2011-4-1
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Woman Is An Attitude is a book by Xu Li published by Lijiang Publishing House in 2011. "Woman is an attitude" is the first personal essay of senior news anchor Xu Li of CCTV International Chinese Channel. The book is divided into four parts: "My career situation", "my love and marriage view", "my beauty experience", "My children's affection". From different levels, with rich texture and expressive words, it expresses rich life experience.
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Author name Xu LiWork time The 2010-4-1
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Grace is a Choice is a 2010 book by Xu Li published by Lijiang Publishing House.
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He has won the national government award twice and the Gold medal of Chinese program host.
China Central Television
International channel
Almost all major
News report
Were presided over by him, such as the early Hong Kong,
Return of Macao
Celebration, "9/11"
attack
China's WTO entry report and so on.
Xu Li was young
Xu Li was young
Xu Li has a unique broadcasting style and enjoys a good reputation among viewers at home and abroad
Reputation
.
The pace of my speech was increasing, and at first it was actually just getting closer to the normal pace of speech; I also cooperated with the tone of the treatment, according to the characteristics of life, naturally increased the emphasis on some stresses. These two aspects alone make a difference. The key thing is that when I do this, it fits the news content very well, from the live voice to my voice, and the connection is very natural, and I am one with the content.
Xu Li was young
Xu Li was young
In my broadcasting, in fact, the most important thing can not be ignored is the change in tone, that is, what kind of attitude I have to broadcast. Whether it is the reader, the communicator who understands the news, or the anchor who controls the news, what kind of psychological basis decides what kind of tone to use. Evidence is crucial.
In terms of living environment, overseas audiences are certainly used to it
News anchor
We're used to news anchors with personalities, which is why they resent our sameness. The clarification of this idea made me realize that Xu Li's understanding of the news should be dealt with as she is a news anchor. As a result, people later described the magnificent atmosphere, a strong sense of control, vitality, and no lack of personal emotional input of the so-called Xu Li broadcast style.
I was not prepared for the impact and controversy this style generated.
Xu Li in life is frank and frank, let a person see a kind of
intimacy
. A beautiful woman, with an enviable career and a happy family, is simply a footnote to the word "perfect". Xu Li with new work
Woman is an attitude
"To Shenzhen to sign, the reporter interviewed her. As the anchor of CCTV's China News, Xu Li can't avoid mistakes. She said the funniest time was at the beginning of the show, when the camera cut in front of her and she started talking
Opening remarks
. Somehow I even forgot the name of China News and said, "Welcome everyone to watch?
China Central Television (CCTV)
Of..." Can not continue, fortunately, the director reminded not to "wear help". I've been talking for over a decade, and then all of a sudden, it's like
amnesiac
Pretty much.
Xu Li anchors China News
News has become part of Xu Li's life, and the family subscribes to several newspapers and newspapers
News magazine
Start watching it at breakfast. Usually the first thing on the Internet is to read the news, she bought a smallest computer to take with her, sometimes to the remote place can not get on the net is particularly depressed. She knows what's in the news every day, and she knows it before she goes on TV.
Xu Li said that every day when he arrived at the station, he asked: "What is there to play?" If there is a big news or something new in the way it is reported, it is especially exciting, and the whole day is happy, and if there is nothing, it is very boring.
Some say the host is eating
Youth food
CCTV has so many young and beautiful female hosts, Xu Li is a pressure, Xu Li said, the host is indeed a career that people envy and attention, if the graduates can be divided into CCTV, the home is to put on a banquet to celebrate, CCTV is also a talent concentration. But she is not afraid of competition, and particularly wants to have good quality competition, which is good for everyone. Xu Li's confidence comes from years of hard work and accumulation, she said that the host is a very practical job, three or five years is just a warm-up, ten years later I feel the camera began to listen to their words. She says she usually watches it
Phoenix TV
More. I like it a lot
Chen Luyu
's
A date with Lu Yu
"And"
Chen Xiaonan
's
Warm and cold life
I think they are very good hosts. She said she may also do interviews in the future, but the interview style will be more similar
Wang Zhi
That way, but it will be more delicate and gentle than Wang Zhi.
Xu Li
Xu Li
"
Woman is an attitude
"Is Xu Li's first book, there will be a second book, is about female cultivation. She said she wrote the book mainly to take stock of the past, but also to find new possibilities for the future.
Husband character
In the book "Woman is an Attitude", Xu Li admitted that her husband is a"
Grizzly bear
Like a man." They've been together for ten years. What did she say she didn't believe
Seven year itch
Eight years of itch that kind of evil, good feelings in the world must have, like
Wang Xiaobo
and
Li Yinhe
That, that was the feeling of knowing each other...
Xu Li
Xu Li
Once, I was chatting with some colleagues in the media industry. in
Caribbean Sea
We rarely get together for a holiday. I suddenly asked: you are the industry elite, the career has been very successful, then love, do you believe in love, this is an attempt to break the barrier of interpersonal communication questions, in the free atmosphere, especially in the romantic Caribbean sea, may it be a good topic. I suggest that you answer as frankly as possible, but you can also remain silent.
They are all over 40 years old, most of them are in high positions in the media, and they choose to keep quiet about their love. Some say, honestly admit, this is really difficult to answer. But whether to believe in love, basically everyone answered: Yes, of course, believe, the tone is quite serious and sincere.
When I first met him, I was at the end of my youth. Although I was not full of youth, I seemed to be in better shape than my peers because I studied ballet and did sports in my spare time.
The first time he saw me, his feeling was "beautiful, flying, bright."
"But what's it got to do with me," he said afterwards.
He is a reserved and insidious man, my "China News" only appeared on the screen, and his profession brought him to the attention of that very different program, and the female anchor who drove it.
During his career, he worked as a cultural journalist for several years. Culture journalists were different that month, and at least they didn't have to follow so-called celebrities around like paparazzi. His tastes and personality are serious, and his inner integrity makes it easy for him to ignore anyone
Sedan chair
He has written and praised very few celebrities, in the face of celebrities, his usual attitude is to observe, and very indifferent. I met him through our mutual friend. Friends think I have a prominent personality on the screen, and I hope to be widely publicized in other media. He was the first thing a friend thought of. Because he rarely writes about people, write people out of the ordinary. Maybe the friend thought he was the only one writing
Be worthy of
My eye-popping screen personality. Friends do mean well.
Xu Li
Xu Li
For a long time, I am not interested in whether others write me or how to write me, and there is no market packaging that year, and I am held to be killed. He was also used to cold observation of celebrities, although at the behest of his friends, he did not take things seriously. One is not interested, one is not too serious, although friends like to meet and know each other, but a flash of half a year, writing about the matter but no news.
How he looked at me, the conclusion is already above. Although he was conspicuous and, to use the term, very present, grizzly, with a big, sullen face, I had no deeper impression of him from mere acquaintance. The impression is that the face that easily does not smile, long sullen face. After I said to him, your face is gray, how can a man have such a gray face, he said, that time is really very tired, think about the tube of things are too much. As for not laughing, it seems to be born, making comments, ha ha.
Friends promised things no news for half a year, anxious or friends. I do not know what kind of work my friend has done, and finally one day, he said to me: Let's talk.
I remember he drove a red one that day
Cherokee
Add before and after
bumper
The car body appears large. I think it's appropriate for a man like a grizzly to drive a car like that. He opened the door for me, sat down and asked me: Go eat
Hunan cuisine
All right? Let's eat and talk.
That month Cherokee had just become fashionable, and chatting with such a grizzly bear man felt cool, at least on the surface, and there was Hunan food, I happily agreed, and I was in a good mood.
That was the first time we started talking to each other. At a popular Hunan restaurant, the midday sun is just right. It's called an interview with me, so I'm still doing the talking. I don't remember exactly what we were talking about, but it was a lot more extensive than the interview required. His dark face had grown warm as he listened to me. That warmth releases indulgence for others, so I was in a good mood to talk that day. I found him to be the kind of man I liked, intelligent and calm, very funny, often witty, but not very flashy. The beautiful woman indirectly expressed her appreciation for him with a good interest in speaking. His face grew warmer.
Xu Li
Xu Li
Encounter the favor of the opposite sex, women are shallow, at least tend to shallow. Unable to withstand the warm encouragement of the grizzly bear, the little woman named Xu Li became more energetic at that time.
Later he told me that I had looked back at him playfully a long time ago, and that after that glance, he really wanted to talk to me. "You're holding me back." 'he said.
We spoke frequently on the phone, and talking to him soon became a necessity.
He said he likes smart women, smart women lift men's spirits, and if the smart woman happens to be a little silly, all the better. He said if a woman is smart, she gets spooky, and that's not fun for a man. I don't know if I'm smart, but I'm stupid a lot of the time. He said that by stripping away a layer of my intelligence, I showed a particularly down-to-earth stupidity, which was what he needed as soon as he came out of the womb, and he said that silly and he particularly matched.
Then the market
Upper treatise
Zaz hasn't bought many flowers yet. Remember that one
Rose
It's so fresh, it's like a sunny day. He also bought a flower, pink and white, like the shape of a woman's body, pottery, roses especially suitable. Along with the rose came his early published work. When I read a person's article, I usually decide whether I like it after two hundred words, and I like his things very much after reading two lines. All he showed me was
Lu Xun
Style essay.
Xu Li
Xu Li
While I was reading the article, he was arranging the roses, pricking, cutting the root, and then
Earthen vase
It's a nice look in there. The purple and pink orchid he stuck in me
Make coffee
In a glass pot. Holding the orchid, he walked to my bedroom door, asked: can I nod, he placed the orchid on the bedroom dresser. Another look at the living room on the coffee table, the water roses are happily in full bloom. Naturally, he did all this, just waited and looked at me.
Later I told my friend that when he put the flowers in the right container in that shape, I felt I could live with him. I love what he does. He was good at creating the atmosphere, as if he had stolen it from God, but he was also expressing something else: as a Nan, he was a man who knew how to taste the process of life, not only understood, but also enriched the process, improved the process. That's no small skill.
Our hobbies are very similar. Like quiet, like reading, like interesting chat, like watching people come and go. It's like everything we do is like each other. This consistency allows us to blend together quickly: working out together, shopping together, going to concerts together, seeing friends together, hanging out in bookstores, walking in the sun together. We always held hands and hugged each other in a very natural way. Everywhere we've lived, we've always been seen as a couple. Occasionally missing one, someone will accost: a person ah.
We were also surprised to find that even though he and I had been married for 10 years, when we got together, we didn't have any unacceptable leftovers from our past marriages (which are often a huge barrier to remarriage). We accept each other completely, we like each other completely, we are so bonded and connected.
Speaking of tacit understanding, one day shortly after I lived with him, we came home from work at the same time. Without any prior agreement, he and I bought five pounds of rice for the family at the same time, two two
Green tea
And it's all the same Anhui
Maofeng Mountain
. It was an incredible coincidence. I remember that at that time, in addition to surprise, we were so happy, thinking, how can it be, it is two two, it is also Maofeng.
Tacit understanding is what we feel all the time in life.
For ten years, we have maintained a routine. When he was driving, he would often hold out his right hand to me whenever I sat next to him. At the same time as reaching out, he would turn his face, expecting my response. I immediately put my left hand over and let him grasp it. With a knowing smile, he turned his head away and continued to let the car move silently. To tell you the truth, that first stretch of his hand, it really blew my mind. Very quiet, very romantic, very affectionate. And for so many years, I feel that I am so held by him, warm, sweet, in the atmosphere of being loved, dispersed
lampblack
The taste of a real and romantic day.
Sometimes, we are angry, as long as he gently shouted at me "girl", as long as he reached out to me, as long as I put his hand over the past, we immediately calm. In a world of two, that gesture has a special meaning. It reminds us of our love, the joy of connection, and the rarity of meeting each other.
When asked in an interview who had the greatest influence on me, I answered without hesitation that it was my husband. My colleagues and friends all think that I have been more lovely and beautiful in the past ten years. I think the biggest change is the state of mind, to be a serious woman, so I am indeed more peaceful, calm and generous than in the past.
Grateful marriage
When it comes to marriage, Xu Li is not shy, she admitted that she has been married twice. She said her first marriage was 10 years, and her second marriage happened to be 10 years. However, she is not too willing to talk about her ex-husband, only said: "He is a good person, but two good people do not necessarily make a good marriage." I'm always grateful for my first marriage." Speaking of her current husband, Xu Li was much more relaxed and smiled happily, revealing that his nickname was "grizzly bear". An audience member immediately gave Xu Li one on stage
Grizzly bear
The doll, seeing the doll she became shy, and then gently held the doll in her arms.
The cover of Woman Is An Attitude
The cover of Woman Is An Attitude
Xu Li said that the current husband was met in an interview, the second time they met, Xu Li is very sure that he is the kind of man he likes, "because he is intelligent, and calm." He was very funny and very happy to be with him." She said that she is very dependent on her current husband, and her beautiful clothes and jewelry are basically bought by "grizzly bear", "this pair of shoes is bought by him, beautiful," she pointed to her feet
Beautiful shoes
Show it to the audience with pride. Xu Li said that ten years of working with the Grizzly Bear had taught her the true meaning of happiness.
Children are more important
Xu Li, more than 40 years old, not only the face is maintained very well, the figure is also maintained very well, but also can not see that she was the mother of an 18-year-old boy. Like all mothers, Xu's eyes light up when she talks about her son, but when the successful Xu looks back on the experience of raising her son, she is full of regrets. "When I was young, I gave up a lot of opportunities to get along with my children for the sake of my career. My son accepted me as his mother almost reluctantly. I often think that if given the choice, maybe he would choose not to have a mother like me." Seeing some female colleagues in the station came to work two months after the birth of the child, Xu Li said that she especially wanted to persuade them as a veteran: "There is no work in the world worth leaving your two-month-old child, since he gave birth to him, you must be responsible for the child, otherwise you will regret it later." Xu Li: In the face of the beauty of the past, we are easy to feel sad. Some psychologists say that some women's
Psychological crisis
It comes from the fear of their own age, hate men frivolous tease when they are young, and when men no longer pay attention to it, the loss in the heart will lead to serious self-contempt. Many women give up from such self-contempt. Our beauty is not for courtship, not for the appreciation of others, we have the responsibility to show the beauty of life, that is our due dignity of life.
Xu Li
Xu Li
Xu Li: Me
Go to the countryside
Almost no one believes it. Because of politeness, people do not ask their age. Judging only from my appearance and air, I do not have the minimum memory and imagination of the educated youth that people remember. Not a weathered vicissitudes of the face, air too happy, behavior is too frivolous, fine skin tender flesh, the whole body attached to the grace of the privileged, how can it be educated youth.
Xu Li: For women, people have countless evaluation criteria, for me, whether it is myself or others, more or judge her attitude, towards themselves, towards others, towards the world. How a woman treats others is actually shaping herself.
Remarriage story
Xu Li is a female anchor of CCTV International's "China News", and has won many national government awards and gold MEDALS for Chinese program hosts. Unknown to all
Hunan woman
to
starlight
CCTV famous mouth, Xu Li all the way elegant and beautiful. Looking back, she truly appreciates the most important man in her life - her remarried husband.
Interview harvest
In 1992, Xu Li, already in her thirties, made two crucial decisions: one was to break through the "bottleneck" of marriage and divorce her husband of 10 years; The second is to leave Changsha TV Station and struggle for CCTV. She lives in the CCTV provided
dormitory
I ride my bike to and from work every day. Two years have passed, and Xu Li is still struggling alone in Beijing. At this time, Xu Li has a firm foothold in CCTV with her distinctive personality. One day in May 1994, Xu Li received a phone call from a friend who said, "Your screen personality is too eye-catching. Let me find a newspaper reporter to promote it for you." A week later, Xu Li received a phone call from a friend: "This reporter's name is
Zhang Tianwei
Just got back from a business trip. I'll take your
Contact information
Tell him, and he'll be in touch with you soon."
Xu Li
Xu Li
The next day was Saturday. Toward noon, Mr. Zhang arrived in a red Cherokee to pick Ms. Xu up and take her to CCTV. He had long hair and a thick
temples
With a gloomy and melancholy expression, it looks very cool. Xu Li Le: How does this person look like a grizzly bear?
The two were soon in a state of interviewing and being interviewed. With a big, sullen face, he asked only a few questions that seemed obvious but profound, and then coldly observed her sitting across from him, unlike the cosy cultural journalists.
The first time encountered such an angular reporter, Xu Li opened a box, gushing around the interview topic said up. After the interview, Zhang Tianwei said meaningfully before Xu Li got off the car: "You put me 'down'," and then the red Cherokee turned around and walked away.
Since then, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei often take time off to make a greeting phone, when free to talk a few words.
Common language
More and more, each other can feel the comfort of mental confrontation.
Xu Li was unique to the north by Zhang Tianwei
masculinity
Got it. He liked the simplicity and kindness under her halo, and he told Xu Li that he had had 10 years
Marital history
He said that although he was a "second-hand man," he had "first-hand emotions."
Although both have been married once, they both fully accept each other, fully like each other, and their hearts are so connected. When they were talking about marriage, Zhang Tianwei suddenly raised a difficult question: "What if my parents can't accept you?" She froze and didn't know what to do. He solved the mystery: "I have heard people around me say more than once, this Xu Li, iron mouth, no smile, how can a woman do so?" These words have always been glib Xu Li speechless, but she is an unyielding person, she is determined to conquer the future in-laws.
Love process
Zhang Tianwei, a few years older than Xu Li, came from a big family in Beijing, with both parents
Central Academy of Fine Arts
Senior professor, famous sculptor, brother is Dr. Liud, famous painter. After falling in love with Xu Li, Zhang Tianwei did not dare to reveal the wind to his parents.
At home, he suddenly liked watching TV, and the remote control often locked the program hosted by Xu Li, and then looked intently. His parents were influenced to notice Xu Li on the TV screen. Once, the two could not help feeling: "Oh, this girl looks good, and the host is good, but who wants to marry such a daughter-in-law can be great, how powerful it is." Zhang Tianwei had to agree with his parents, said: "Hey hey, such a beautiful, sharp-toned big woman is a little scary, but a thing, there will always be a man can give her to conquer."
Xu Li
Xu Li
A few days later, Zhang Tianwei's younger brother quietly told his parents: "It seems that my brother is in love with that powerful anchorwoman recently."
When the news came out, it caused an "earthquake" at home. The two old people immediately put forward two questions: "First, your character is gentle and peaceful, how can you get along with such a powerful woman?" Second, you are an ordinary citizen, she is a TV star, how can you live a normal life together?" Zhang Tianwei said: "She is strong but not stubborn, or easy to get along with; No matter how famous she is, get out
studio
No different from ordinary women..." "I'd like to visit your parents," Xu Li said after hearing the news from Zhang Tianwei. Half-joking, she said, "I'm prepared for the worst. If the professors don't accept me, I'll marry you home."
One evening in July 1994, Xu Li stood with Zhang Tianwei, dressed in a black gauze suit, with her face turned upside down
Beizhan Theater
His parents waited at the door before coming in to watch
The Soviet Union
The Red Army
Song and dance. When Zhang Tianwei's parents appeared in front of Xu Li, she shouted sweetly: "Uncle, aunt good." Zhang Tianwei's mother took the initiative to shake hands with her, and the distance was suddenly narrowed.
Soon after a day off in the afternoon, Zhang Tianwei drove Xu Li to his home. As soon as she entered the room, she smelled a special sour smell, and it was her father who was cooking
douzhi
Son.
Dinner is served with bean juice
Baked roll
, and
Mustard pier
,
Sesame bean curd
Etc.
Old Peking
Home cooking. A bowl of bean juice placed in front of Xu Li looked like
limewash
She forced herself to take a small bite and, my God, the taste was rancid
hogwash
. Xu Li gathered her courage and drank the bean juice. Strange things happened, the taste of this bean juice is a little special, the more the drink is smooth, sour taste is not, instead of a warm heart and lung taste. Soon, she finished her drink
A bowl of
. The whole family looked happy, agreed that she this Xiang sister "very into the soil", Xu Li gradually into the Kochi family.
Happy life
At the end of 1995, Xu Li took out all her savings to buy a new house and walked into the marriage hall hand in hand with Zhang Tianwei. After marriage, they decided to take their son to their new home in Beijing. The ex-husband delivered the son himself.
The first time the son saw Zhang Tianwei, he shouted: "Father Zhang hello." Zhang Tianwei was stunned, reached out to touch his small head and said: "You are really a good boy, your mother often praises you in front of me." A family of 3 living together, Xu Li gave the family financial power to Zhang Tianwei in charge, said: "I will not save money."
There are a lot of beautiful women on TV who are married to rich people and live a luxurious life. Although Xu Li is in love with Zhang Tianwei, friends in the circle think that she married a reporter with little money is too bad. In this regard, Xu Li firmly believes that peaceful, happy and stable family life is how much money can not be changed.
CCTV has a beauty room that many female workers like to go to. I've had a beauty card there for years and never used it up. I went, only to beauty lady said: come to bed.
girls
I know. Try to find me somewhere quiet to lie down and cover it up with something thick
blanket
So I can sleep in peace. Beauty for me, is tired to change the feeling of sleeping place.
The first contact with beauty is 27 years old, just gave birth to a son, feel that they are old and ugly. Women who have just had a baby have a certain kind of insecurity. Pregnancy makes the body out of shape, production and life and death, that period of women from the state of mind seems to have no chance with beautiful, after the end of production, there is an urgent desire to return my youth.
I did things that seemed irrational, like blindly buying clothes. Because the girl's clothes can not be worn, one or two years before and after pregnancy, give up dressing up, in the case of fashion and themselves are not too sure, the mother will go into the complex of self-change, no matter what,
preempt
Let's talk later.
The clothes I bought at the time seemed completely inexplicable. because
waistline
Big, the body fat is thick, and the first mother, instinctively feel that all the bright girls have become unattainable, and not willing to determine the identity of women, the purchase results of that mentality can be imagined. After wearing them for a few days, I felt that I did not know who bought them and why. One day to the counter to see the clothes, the sales lady holding a middle-aged women's dress I said: this dress is very suitable for you, more than thirty years old, just right. It almost put my nose out of shape.
The joy of new motherhood and the abandonment or loss of girlish atmosphere come together in such a period of time, so that the delicate mind of the woman is defenseless. I remember not knowing what to do: watching my son happy, watching myself angry. Mother said to me, don't buy blindly, waste money
Maternity leave
Not finished, a friend told me, where just opened a beauty shop, heard good. I didn't really have any skin problems at that time, I just thought beauty should make people beautiful, I just need to look beautiful again, why not go. The owner of the shop is a divorced woman less than 30 years old, studied in Shenzhen for a month, and opened her own shop. At that time
Changsha
There are few beauty shops, her beauty shop in Changsha is a pioneer shop, I went to the beauty shop is equal to catch a big fashion. It was also in line with my mentality at the time: a woman who is a mother should not be abandoned by fashion.
With my economic ability at that time, it was impossible to regularly go to the beauty shop to do beauty, and later found that the so-called beauty only a few hours of effect, the next day is still the same. This gives me a very bad truth. Gradually, I went to the beauty shop less and less, although the boss was warm and preferential, I did not go again after all. I didn't understand then that beauty is more advanced and careful skin care, the same as skin care
Daily care
The same is true of persistence. Beauty and fitness are the same truth, only adhere to it, and take it as a way of life, the effect will naturally appear in the way. I did not have such economic strength at that time, and I did not know that doing beauty is actually a lifestyle determination and choice, and I tried it hastily, and it ended hastily.
Perhaps, that tried, so that I have a preconceived concept of beauty, beauty does not make people beautiful, just money. And I also found that my best beauty treatment is to wash my face and get eight hours of sleep. It works better than anything.
In the future, whether I have money or not, beauty is not a necessary option for me. It is nice to spend two or three hours being attended to, but that time is really expensive, and it is even more difficult to time it. Do not do beauty regularly, the long-term effect of beauty is difficult to show, why do not do things that have no effect. Just don't do it.
I have good skin, which is an excuse for people who see me when they really have nothing to compliment me on. Apart from natural causes, my philosophy is to wash my face and get as much sleep as possible.
Because long makeup, washing my face is a project for me. After the show, I would spend ten minutes washing my face, starting with Naomura's
Cleansing oil
Unload it, then use the best
Facial cleanser
Wash again. The washed face in this way has a sense of liberation, and the woman who has been close to the water will be particularly clean. I like that.
Because I realize that washing my face is a project, I wash my face very patiently, and even feel happy because of it. I don't wash my face when I'm upset. It's not clean.
I don't sleep well, so I rely more on cleaning my face. My experience is to insist on washing the face clean, choose suitable skin care products, perseverance, skin is not bad. To put it bluntly, the time and money spent in the beauty salon are dispersed in their own daily care, and the effect is ultimately consistent.
Another important aspect that comes to mind when it comes to skin care is sun protection. There is no reason for a woman to despise sun protection unless she accepts what she looks like.
Mongoloid
In fact, it is better not to sun, sun there is always a pair
malnutrition
The rust phase. I use it all year round
sunblock
. After sunbathing like I did in Xinjiang, I'm sure my sun protection is good. Women can use a high-strength sunscreen (I used one in Xinjiang) before they decide to go out in the sun
Shiseido
50x sun protection) and put on a layer of sun protection
foundation
In this way, the chance of getting a tan is very small. I broadcast in Xinjiang at noon, the sun is strong, more than a month down, the skin did not black much. Just, so coated with foundation and sun-baked face, especially to wash clean, after washing and then apply a
Hydrating mask
The skin will calm down.
Xu Li
After all, my beauty is to wash my face, wash clean is better than anything.
Air quality
It's generally bad. As long as I've been outside, I've been inside
washout
Clean. Perhaps women are made of water, washed by water,
Woman will
Naturally beautiful and clean.
To say that, I do not exclude to go to the beauty salon, not often, go to sleep. With the soft man music and drifting
Essential oil
perfume
Relax under the care of the beauty lady until you fall asleep.
